Teauryajya DuBenion, 29, started her stripping career in Los Angeles with the encouragement of some friends. “In Los Angeles, everyone is a stripper. Your local nurse is a stripper, teacher is a stripper, babysitter is a stripper, your dog walker is a stripper,” she said. “I was tired of skipping meals.”
Now, over two years and 400,000 followers later, Ms. DuBenion, who goes by @PicassoBae, thinks of herself as TikTok’s stripper girlfriend. “You can just run to me in the dressing room whenever you’re having a rough night and just vent,” she said. “I’m like your co-worker or work wife.”
Ms. DuBenion is part of a growing community of strippers on TikTok who post under the hashtag #Striptok. Instead of gathering around a water cooler, they have built an online network to exchange professional advice, safety tips and good old-fashioned strip club gossip.
Ms. DuBenion recently made a viral TikTok advising dancers on how to strip while menstruating. She offers punchy yet practical insights, like “double up on panties.”
The video had almost half a million views, and the comment section was a chorus of women doling out feminine hygiene tips. “The comment section was flooded with women giving additional advice on what worked for them whether they strip or not,” Ms. DuBenion said. “It was awesome.”
She believes that many of her female followers who watch her TikTok do not aspire to be strippers, but instead are simply women inspired by her charisma and poise. “I’ve had people message to tell me that they have this newfound confidence whether they want to strip, or in their current job, or life goals they set from themselves,” she said. “All because of the way that I speak about my own life experiences through stripping.”
Another popular StripTok user is Sky Hopscotch, 27, as she is known on social media, who on a chilly night in her home in Des Moines not long ago, flippantly tossed supplies onto a black shimmering bag and read a checklist: lingerie, makeup, baby wipes, perfume and Tylenol. In a bored, deadpan voice, she delivered each line off-camera: “Who are we kidding? The men you’re dancing on are going to sweat all over you too.”
She uploaded this tutorial with a caption: “Is your life falling apart? Can’t pay your rent? What you should bring on your first night as an exotic dancer.” The next morning, the video racked up two million views, and her account ballooned to 30,000 followers. “It was then that I started posting exclusively StripTok content,” she said.
On the platform, she has unearthed an audience eager to inherit her wisdom as a stripper: the good, the bad, the banality of men’s attention. “I discovered there was an entire community of strippers on TikTok,” she said. “A lot of women were sharing their experience as strippers: Some were educating, others were glorifying the industry. I figured, why not share my experience?”
In this enclave of the app, women congregate to document dispatches of their lives as strippers. They show off bruises from twerking, recite locker-room melodramas, boast bill counting and lament sexual harassment. In many ways, StripTok has allowed strippers to reclaim agency in their work, partly because they give advice and encouragement to one another in an industry rife with disappointment.
When she began her career 10 years ago, Sky Hopscotch was what is commonly referred to in the stripping community as a “baby stripper.” Inexperienced strippers are even more vulnerable to harassment and exploitation at the whims of bosses and customers.
“Strip club clients would single me out and request lap dances from me because they knew I was unexperienced,” she said. “They could be more handsy, cheat me out of money or try to get me to leave the club with them.”
Many strippers on TikTok are using their platforms with the goal of helping younger dancers avoid troubling experiences. They hope that their advice will be one step in strip clubs becoming safer and more amicable workplaces for women. “It’s vital that veteran dancers share their secrets, like hiring a bouncer to go with you to bachelor parties, so new girls in the industry don’t have to get hurt,” Sky Hopscotch said.
Under the constraint of catering to male fantasy and competitiveness, strip clubs often become an oppressive environment to strippers. The toll on mental health can be considerable. “I struggled deeply with depression, drug and alcohol addiction, eating disorders — all manners of things,” Sky Hopscotch said. “If I wasn’t pretty, if I wasn’t thin, then I would not be able to pay my bills.”
If the strip club is dominated by the male gaze, then StripTok offers viewers something else: a place where strippers are free to present as themselves. Many videos on StripTok feature strippers in states of casualness — without makeup, stretching in locker rooms, idle at home in sweatpants. Others are in oversize T-shirts counseling strippers on how to write off hair extensions as a tax deduction.
Katt, 24, a stripper living in Los Angeles, who asked to be identified only by her first name, found refuge in StripTok after feeling disillusioned by her job. She worries that the strip club teases out “the most toxic parts of myself that wants to be man pleasing.”
When she became active in the StripTok community, she began playfully experimenting with her own gender representation. “You see me in short hair, long hair, different wigs. Different looks of makeup. No makeup,” Katt said. “I feel like people are always there, hyping me up and relating to my experience without making it about what I look like. That’s really validating to me.”
Katt is Asian American and said she is overly familiar with objectification, both on and off the clock. “That’s something I’ve experienced my whole life, by every kind of man,” she said. “You see yourself in the media as the hot Asian girl or the nerdy Asian girl.”
Through her online platform, she recounts her experience of being bisexual and Asian in the stripping community, often spurring hundreds of positive comments and a network of support for other strippers from diverse backgrounds.
Katt, who sometimes raps along to music in her TikToks, hopes that by showing the quotidian lives of strippers, she will help humanize the profession. “You clock in for work at 7 p.m. These girls are just eating a Caesar salad, playing on their phones and talking to each other about their man troubles,” she said, joking.
The interest with the interior lives of strippers on TikTok is not without precedent. “It’s because of me,” said A’Ziah King, known as Zola, in a message over Instagram. “I birthed an era and made a lane for sex workers to be vocal about their experiences and I am happy that door is now open.”
In 2015, Ms. King posted a long thread — 148 tweets — about a debauched weekend she spent stripping. Her posts were filled with enthralling details of betrayal, attempted murder, sex trafficking and friendship lost. The story trended worldwide within hours and was recently adapted into a film, “Zola,” directed by Janicza Bravo.
“I think it’s crucial for the community to share all angles and experiences within sex work, and only a sex worker can do so,” Ms. King said. “It’s important we share these experiences because it creates a safe space and sense of community.”
Despite being a reprieve from strip club bureaucracy, TikTok, like other social media sites, often censors strippers and sex workers. TikTok’s guidelines state that it “does not allow nudity, pornography or sexually explicit content.” Yet, strippers say that informational TikToks about sexual health, safety tips and general tutorials are targeted too. Ms. DuBenion had her account banned entirely and recently created a second account. StripTok posts often disappear, accounts are shadow banned, and content is removed without explanations.
This can affect livelihoods, as some strippers rely on TikTok’s Creator Fund as a second source of income during periods of financial drought at the club. Sky Hopscotch said her account is frequently deleted after educational posts about supporting sex workers. During this time, her secondary income plummets.
“I was making anywhere from $40 to $60 a day from the Creator Fund and then, the last three weeks, I’ve been making 96 cents a day maybe,” she said. “We have to be very careful about what we say and do on TikTok out of fear that we’ll be deplatformed.”
Many strippers are using their platforms to raise awareness about FOSTA-SESTA, two bills passed in 2018, broadly aimed at curbing sex trafficking online. Many sex workers feel marginalized by the bills. “This has hurt a lot of us in the community even though the intended goal was to stop sex trafficking — statistics say that it hasn’t done that at all,” Sky Hopscotch said. “It has further deplatformed people like myself.”
Through advocacy, StripTok hopes to gain momentum in raising awareness about the harmfulness of anti-sex-work legislation.
“One of the legacies of FOSTA-SESTA had been making it much more dangerous for people who engage in sex work to do so in a way that’s safer and healthier,” said Emma Llansó, the director of the Free Expression Project at the Center for Democracy and Technology, a nonprofit in Washington, D.C., dedicated to advocating individuals’ rights in technology policymaking. “There have been a lot of crackdowns on sites where people can share information about health and wellness: all different sorts of information that sex workers were really using to keep themselves safe and to be informed and to help each other.”
This censorship has spawned a mutated, hidden language on TikTok to discuss sex work. To adapt to TikTok’s policies, strippers refer to their work as “accounting” or “skripping” to camouflage themselves. “Anytime I refer to stripper, I’ll say ‘skrippa,’” Ms. DuBenion said. “Sometimes, if I write it out, I use dollar signs and an exclamation point for the I. There are things you have to finagle to make it work.”
Despite the late nights and confining heels, she still loves being a stripper. She is saving the money she earns from stripping to fund a group home for people with Down syndrome, which her sister has.
“It wasn’t until recently that I started receiving donations from family, friends and even supporters across my social media platform,” Ms. DuBenion said. “I even saved all the money I made from the TikTok Creator fund to go toward a down payment on the house. I would never have thought that stripping, two and a half years ago, would have such a positive impact on my life and the lives around me.”
Ms. DuBenion recounted times when men have come into her strip club and handed her $100 bills because they’re moved by her acts of charity online. She hopes that this experience will encourage other strippers to tell their stories: express their own vulnerabilities and discontents.
“I just want everybody to see that I am a real-life person and that I do have purpose in this world,” she said. “I’m doing it for a good cause and I’m relatable. I don’t know — I’m not an object.”